I used to hear such an expression: some people are consciously incompetent because they know they are not good enough; some people are consciously competent as feeling good at what doing; some are unconsciously competent because of masterful for what they do.
They don’t need to be aware of that consciously. They appear pretty humble. Being humble is not just because you are confident. Too many people’s modesty comes from nature, which is one of the possible qualities we should search for a partner.
I believe we all have met or dealt with humble people. Maybe some of you have that modest nature, too. So we know what a humble person can be.
A humble person usually likes to be low-key and doesn’t like to stand in the front unless he has to. He doesn’t want to boast about his achievements. He constantly shows great respect to others.
A humble person often carries a modest lifestyle. It is not because he can’t afford expensive things. He only likes to have a life in which he feels good and comfortable instead of pleasing others or proving others.
A humble person will not be afraid of praising and recognizing others’ achievements and won’t threaten others better than him. He can be genuinely happy to see other people achieve.
A humble person dares to accept criticism and disagreements because he knows he is not always correct.
A humble person doesn’t like arguing. He has his own opinion but also opens the door for other people to express. When stating his opinion, he usually says:” I thought….”; “But that is just my personal opinion.”
Sometimes people abuse humble nature. But at the same time, a humble heart attracts people. At work or social environment, people like to be friends with humble people. Interestingly, humble people have more chances to be promoted at work because they cause no threat to others.
In a relationship, humble people can also make the partner feel comfortable. They let people be who they are. Selecting a life partner is a challenging process. I encourage single friends to recognize and appreciate this vital nature from the people they are dating.
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