Every day, I can hear people telling me: I am looking for a good person. What is a “Good person”? Can he/she be kind and honest? But a kind and genuine person may not be attractive. Or he/she can be cheerful, easygoing? But a pleasant and flexible person may not be able to offer what we want.
When coming to the selection of the right person, so many feel challenged and confused. I believe finding a suitable person needs a vision, not a list. The image is to see the potential qualities which make a good person who will bring fun and happiness to the relationship.
Here are few rates we should seek. A. Positive attitude; B. Non-complication and flexibility; C. Emotional openness; D. Curiosity; E. Big heart; F. Humble and grateful.
In life, most things will change. But there is something never changes. It comes from birth and leaves with death. It is called the “nature of a person.” The qualities mentioned above are part of that nature. I remember Chinese leader Chairman Mao used to say: Dealing with thousands of change with the unchangeable. If we apply this statement to the relationship, the untouched nature of a person will help us deal with all the life changes. Thus, the connection stays.
In the following articles, I will explain why the qualities mentioned above are essential for a relationship. How can those qualities, in reality, overcome challenges, crises, problems, different views, different personalities, and different demands, which commonly destroyed many relationships and marriages? However, each person and each relationship has its course. The information I share here may not be suitable for every case or every person. So while reading, it is subject to your understanding and experience.
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